What do you do or think when someone lies to you? Not a suspected lie or a gut instinct this person just lied, but a proof positive. One that didn't need to be told or offered. It wasn't a lie big enough to amount to anything that mattered like one of those I'd confront the person on the spot. But one of those lies that make you see the person in a new way.

I think I feel a little sad because automatically in my mind the person has lost some of my respect, my trust and they lost a big portion of their credibility. For why? I believe people either lie for some form of self preservation or to manipulate an outcome. Sometimes both. If someone can let a small lie flow out of their lips will big ones flow a little too easy too?

Whatever reason I find the dynamics of that relationship has shifted.