Rochelle Riley of the Detroit Free Press wants to know what is up with married men and hotel rooms. She's putting in her two cents worth about the Bill O'Reilly "sex scandal". As she goes on to talk about the more famous cheaters: Bill Clinton, Kobe Bryant...she asks a question I think most women have asked.

How many times does this have to happen before men stop thinking with what's below their waists instead of what's above their shoulders?

Got me Rochelle. I think many are stumped by this, men and women.

After being on the shitty end of a relationship more than once where this has happened I've never been able to figure out why the person doesn't have the morals or the respect to end the relationship before going on the prowl.

Yep there is pain and anger when you find out a partner has lied and broken a trust...which for me it's time to hit the road, there is no working it out. Yes, I'm an unforgiving bitch but I can live with that. What I can't live with is waiting to see if it really will happen again. What's the chances of someone actually developing a code of honor half way down the road of life? Slim to none.

So I've heard Rochelles question come from my lips and many of my friends lips. I've only ever heard one answer that explains a man's behavior for adultery or infidelity that made any sense of it all and yes this might be offensive to some, but it put it all together for me when he said "the only thing better than pussy is new pussy".

Is that really all it is?